The Pascal Pulse - Issue 51

On Labels, Boxes, and the Parts of Us That Refuse to Shrink

“We’re all so eager to categorize each other, put everybody into neat little boxes with neat little labels. Real people don’t fit in boxes, there are always some bits that won’t quite go, or too much space once you’re in there.”

— Given in Evidence, verityburns (and yes, we quote a fanfiction)

Labels are not inherently bad. They can be beautiful. They can be helpful. They can become the first language we use to find one another in a world that often makes people feel alone. Sometimes a label is not a prison. Sometimes it is a porch light. It tells someone wandering in the dark: there are people like you here.

You may not fit into a box perfectly, but that does not always mean you want or need to stay outside it. You can sit inside your little box even when parts of you spill over its edges. If it feels comfortable, honest, and chosen, then it can still be yours.

Because staying outside every box can become lonely, too.

That is why conversations around labels are so complicated, particularly within queer communities. When someone says they do not like labels, it does not necessarily mean they are ashamed or unwilling to be seen. Sometimes it means the world has spent too long turning those labels into weapons.

Maybe this is part of why Pedro’s presence within conversations about gender and masculinity resonates with so many people. Not because anyone has the right to label him, claim him, or turn him into a symbol he never asked to be. But because he has often moved through the world with an emotional openness that challenges the narrow version of masculinity many of us were taught to accept.

When speaking about masculinity, Pedro once described it as something with a question mark over it rather than a fixed object or a rulebook every man must follow. He spoke about being a child who loved movies, creativity, emotion, and art, the interests that were not always considered traditionally “masculine.”

Then his career placed him inside roles that look, from the outside, like classic masculine archetypes: warriors, cowboys, protectors, fathers, men with weapons, men carrying grief, men built like survival stories.

But what Pedro brings to those characters is never only hardness.

He brings softness. Fear. Tenderness. The desperate need to protect and the equally human need to be held. He allows masculinity to remain strong without amputating everything gentle from it.

People need to stop treating “gay” like a curse word. They need to stop treating femininity in men as weakness and masculinity in women as a threat. Tenderness does not belong to one gender, just as strength does not belong to another.

Masculinity and femininity are not enemies fighting for space inside us. They influence each other, soften each other, and give each other meaning. The healthiest version of either has never been domination. It has always been balance.

Every person carries some mixture of both: softness and fire, protection and vulnerability, stillness and movement, the urge to hold and the need to be held.

Yet toxic patterns have taught generations of people to fear that balance. Men are told to cut away the parts of themselves that are gentle, expressive, emotional, or delicate. Women are told to shrink the parts that are bold, direct, ambitious, or powerful. Anyone who does not fit comfortably within those expectations is treated like a problem to solve rather than a person to understand.

That is where so much damage begins.

It is also why Pedro’s interpretation of Joel Miller has resonated so deeply. Joel is a man shaped by violence, fear, and loss, but the heart of his masculinity does not lie in domination. It lies in love and acceptance.

When Pedro was asked about Joel’s response to queerness, whether concerning Sarah or Ellie, he explained that it would not create “a moment of pause.” It would simply make sense. Moving on.

That might sound like a small thought, but it carries enormous weight.

Acceptance is not always a grand speech. Sometimes it is the absence of panic. Sometimes it is refusing to transform someone’s truth into a crisis. Sometimes love simply says: okay, you are still you. Come here. Eat something. We have surviving to do.

And then there is Strange Way of Life, where Pedro stepped into a queer western with Pedro Almodóvar and Ethan Hawke. A genre that has historically been built out of dust, guns, silence, and very rigid ideas of manhood. But Pedro talked about that story as something truthful, something that could honor and question masculinity, sexuality between men, and love. That matters. Because when you put queer love inside a western, you are not destroying masculinity. You are exposing how small the old definition was. You are saying: two men can desire each other and still be cowboys. Two men can carry longing, regret, anger, tenderness, and history. Love does not make them less. It makes the story more honest.

The more rigidly society defines what a man or woman is “supposed” to be, the more people begin to feel as though they are failing at simply existing.

Some people are non-binary, genderqueer, trans, or fluid, and those identities are real, valid, and beautiful. Other people may not be searching for a different category at all. They may simply be trying to breathe outside rules that were never created with their humanity in mind.

When society builds gender like a cage, people will naturally begin looking for exits.

A lot of people know exactly where they belong, but they grew up scared of the label. Why? Because the label was presented to them as something negative. Not “different” in the cute, celebrated, quirky way, but different in the way that makes you the punchline of people’s jokes. Different in the way that makes you the insult whispered in school hallways. Different in the way that makes you the curse word of your own friend group before they even know they are talking about you. It is because the world has spent so long treating those labels, these boxes like accusations. Like insults. Like warnings. Like something dirty, shameful, dangerous.

People still use “gay” as if it is a curse word, and then act surprised when someone grows up afraid of the truth living inside them, or afraid to show them their true colors. A lot of people know exactly where they belong. They just learned early that the label for it came with pain.

Homophobia teaches children to fear color before they have even begun to understand their own rainbow.

That is the cruelty of it. It does not only make people afraid of hatred. It makes them afraid of recognition. A person may understand exactly where they belong while still associating the name of that place with shame, danger, or rejection.

A label can name a truth, but it can never contain an entire person. It can open the door, but it is not the whole house.

And labels are not only applied to sexuality or gender. We label people as strong or weak, masculine or feminine, serious or dramatic, innocent or guilty, good or disappointing. We take one photograph, one rumor, one friendship, or one public appearance and use it as evidence in a trial the person never agreed to attend.

That becomes especially visible in fandom.

Many fans say they miss Pedro’s Twitter years. They miss the openness, the chaos, the jokes, and those brief flashes of personality that felt unfiltered and close.

But perhaps, at least partly, the loss of that openness belongs to us.

People may begin hiding their colors when every color they reveal is pulled apart, screenshotted, stripped of context, weaponized, or used to build another theory about them. Someone may stop giving the public pieces of themselves when those pieces are repeatedly treated as evidence rather than expression.

It is worth asking why, even during Pride Month, some people can post rainbows with one hand and reinforce homophobia with the other.

Why do some fans celebrate Pedro’s softness until it becomes too real? Why do they adore the idea of him as gentle, emotional, protective, expressive, and free, but become uncomfortable when he is photographed with a man? Why is proximity to queerness acceptable only when it remains fictional, aesthetic, safely contained within a character, or edited into a gifset?

That is not acceptance. It is simply another box.

Pedro deserves the same freedom and grace that people claim to admire in him. Whatever parts of himself he chooses to share should not become invitations for interrogation. We should not punish people for being human and then wonder why they become more private. We cannot demand authenticity while making authenticity unsafe.

Labels should belong to the people who carry them.

We do not need to force anyone into a box. We also do not need to drag people out of boxes they have freely chosen. We need to create a world where people can decide what language feels true, where they can name themselves, rename themselves, or refuse a name altogether.

People were not made to shrink until they fit. They were made to be seen.

Materialists has finally arrived in Japanese cinemas, bringing fans another lovely surprise: new stills, promotional images and more opportunities to appreciate Harry Castillo in all his beautifully tailored glory.

Meanwhile, The Mandalorian and Grogu is still playing in cinemas, inviting audiences back into a galaxy far, far away, preferably with a large bucket of popcorn and no obligation to treat the experience like an academic assignment.

Perhaps this is the perfect moment to remember something that often gets lost between review scores and online debates: you are allowed to enjoy a film simply because it made you feel good.

A movie does not have to be Oscar-worthy to be worthy of your time. Sometimes a film makes us think deeply about love and relationships. Sometimes it gives us beautiful cinematography, dramatic space battles and a tiny green puppet with extremely expressive ears. Sometimes it simply allows us to escape for two hours.

All of those experiences are valuable. As I wrote in my own review of The Mandalorian and Grogu:

“Was this the best film I have ever seen? No. Did I have fun? Absolutely.”

Those two things can exist together.

You can wish a plot had been more developed while still loving the visuals, characters and atmosphere. You can recognize a movie’s imperfections and still leave the cinema smiling. Enjoyment does not require pretending that something is flawless.

The internet often encourages us to treat every release as either a masterpiece or a disaster. But art is subjective. Every viewer brings different memories, expectations and emotions into the cinema. A scene that means nothing to one person may stay with someone else for years.

When a film connects with you, you are its audience. When it does not, perhaps it simply was not made for you and that is okay, too. We do not need to convince everyone else to love or hate the same things we do. Sometimes we can simply move on and let other people enjoy them.

That is why we would love to encourage everyone to leave a review of Materialists or The Mandalorian and Grogu or any film you feel like you have something to say about.

Write something on Letterboxd, IMDb or social media. It does not need to sound like professional film criticism. Tell people how the movie made you feel. Write about the moment that made you laugh, the character you connected with, the image that stayed in your mind or the scene that reminded you of something from your own life.

Reviews are not only scores assigned to films. They can also become little records of who we were when we watched them. Years from now, you may not remember whether you gave a movie three stars or four. But you may remember sitting in a dark cinema, hearing the music surround you and smiling for two hours.

A newly surfaced photo gives us another look at Pedro wearing his blue “Spoiled Boys” T-shirt and it seems to have become one of his repeat-wear favorites. The tee comes from New York designer Emily Dawn Long’s Fall 2026 collection. Each piece is made from a carefully selected, one-of-a-kind vintage shirt and screen-printed on its reverse side, making every version slightly different.

The shirts retail for $200 through Emily Dawn Long’s official website, although the current blue versions are sold out.

On June 7, 2026, Lux joined her Summer War co-star Dan Beirne and members of the film's cast and creative team for a portrait session at Spring Studios during the 2026 Tribeca Festival in New York City.

On June 8, Lux attended the CHANEL Tribeca Festival Artists Dinner at Tribeca Grill in New York City. The annual event celebrates the artists, filmmakers, and storytellers whose work is featured throughout the festival. Lux's latest film, Summer War, is part of the 2026 Tribeca Festival's International Narrative Competition, making for a particularly exciting week filled with screenings, press appearances, and special events. It's wonderful to see Lux continuing to build her own impressive career while representing a film that has become one of this year's festival highlights.

One of the highlights of this week's Tribeca Festival has been the response to Summer War. Critics have praised the film's atmospheric storytelling, striking visuals, and thought-provoking exploration of obsession, identity, and the increasingly blurred line between fantasy and reality.

Reviewers have also highlighted the strength of the ensemble cast, with Lux earning praise for a performance that brings warmth and humanity to the film's often tense and unpredictable narrative. Set against the backdrop of late-1980s Chile, Summer War weaves psychological drama, dark humor, and historical context into a story that keeps audiences questioning what is real and what is merely part of the game.

For fans of Lux, it is especially exciting to see her receiving recognition for a role that showcases both her versatility and screen presence. While the film itself has been described as haunting, intelligent, and visually captivating, many critics have noted that its emotional core comes from the performances. As audiences continue to discover Summer War, Lux's work is helping introduce her talent to an even wider international audience.

🌈💜 Before We Begin 💜🌈

The advice ahead may come from our favorite Pedro characters, but the message comes from us.

Whether you're out, questioning, celebrating, or supporting someone you love, we're glad you're here. You deserve to be exactly who you are.

Happy Pride. 🌈

Love,
Maiev, Mel & Jackie 💜

Javi Gutiérrez
"Be unapologetically yourself. Also, whenever life gets difficult, watch a great movie and remember there are people rooting for you."

Then hands you a carefully curated Pride watchlist.

Marcus Pike
"Don't shrink yourself to make other people comfortable. The right people will appreciate you exactly as you are."

Then recommends a queer artist, museum exhibit, and gallery opening.

Joel Miller
"Look, I didn't always understand everything right away. Sometimes it takes time. What matters is listenin', learnin', and showin' up for the people you care about. The folks worth keepin' around will do the same for you."

Din Djarin
"Listen, my kid joined a group of space wizard monks and started doing flips with a lightsaber. Was it what I expected? Not exactly. Do I love him anyway? Of course. That's the way it should be. Be who you are. The people who truly care about you won't stop loving you, they'll just learn a few new things about the Force."

Oberyn Martell
"Love boldly, desire freely, and never be ashamed of who catches your eye. Life is far too short to deny yourself passion, pleasure, or the chance to be exactly who you are."

Javier Peña
"Stop worrying so much about what everybody else thinks. Most of them are too busy worrying about themselves anyway."

Frankie Morales
"Listen, I've seen what happens when people are told to hide who they are. You shouldn't have to do that. Find your people, lean on them, and don't let anyone make you feel like you have to earn the right to be yourself."

Agent Whiskey
"Anybody who makes you feel less than? That's their problem, not yours, sugar."

Dieter Bravo
"You are a magnificent, complex being floating through the universe. Don't waste that trying to fit into somebody else's box. Some of us were meant to explore the whole spectrum."

Then immediately starts talking about crystals, energy, and how attraction is way more fluid than people think.

Dave York
"Trust actions, not words. The people who support you will show you."

Max Lord
"Listen, if Steven Carrington could survive on Dynasty and still be himself, you can handle whatever this decade throws at you. Life's weird. Own it."

Ezra
"I've observed that many souls spend the better part of their lives drawing the curtains against themselves, concealing their truest nature in dimly lit corners because they're frightened of what honesty might cost them. They fear abandonment, disappointment, the shifting of affections. Yet, in my experience, the people truly deserving of your confidence and tenderness do not recoil when they see who you are. Quite the opposite. They look upon you with a clearer eye, as though a fog has lifted from the landscape, and they recognize something beautiful that was there all along."

"So be yourself, fully and without apology. The universe, in all its vast and improbable creativity, has already gone to the trouble of producing exactly one of you. Such a singular occurrence ought not be squandered on imitation. It would be a genuine tragedy to spend your days performing another role when the most remarkable character available has been yours from the beginning."

Even though JingleKo hasn't posted in over a year, their artwork is still one of those fandom treasures we find ourselves thinking about. Their illustrations captured everything we love about DinLuke, tenderness, devotion, found family, and those quiet moments that say so much without a single word.

From sweet family portraits featuring Grogu to playful and imaginative AUs, JingleKo's art always felt full of heart. As fellow DinLuke fans, their work has remained a favorite long after the last post.

Sometimes the art that stays with you is the art worth celebrating, and JingleKo's is definitely that for us. 💚✨

Follow: @jingleko_art on Instagram and take a scroll through their gallery, you might just fall in love with DinLuke all over again.

As Pride Month comes to a close, we'd love to highlight LGBTQ+ creators in next week's issue. If you'd like to share your art with our community, reply to this email or DM us on Instagram. We'd love to hear from you!

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Maiev @LittleMrsMorales & Mel @StainsOfPascal & Jackie 💜

Special Thanks:

To Pedro - thank you for proving that sometimes, society does make the right person famous. Thank you for standing beside those who feel unseen, unheard, and uncertain of their place in the world. You remind us that visibility can be an act of grace.

To our readers - thank you for filling our inbox, our hearts, and this tiny corner of the internet with your brilliance. You turn a project into a community.

See you in the next issue!
Remember: you’re not too much.
You’re exactly the right amount of obsessed.
Until next time